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Patterns. Relationships. Burnout. Boundaries. Self-trust. Healing. Habits. Professional identity. And the strange ways the things we learned to survive can become the things keeping us stuck.
Thinking Out Loud is where I write about the ideas that keep showing up in my work, in Gremlins & Goats, in conversations with providers, and in everyday life.
Explore the latest writing below.


Do You Feel Like You're "Too Much"? How to Silence the Shame Voice That Makes You Hide Your Emotions
Have you ever swallowed tears at a funeral because crying too hard would make you a burden? Or refused help when drowning, fearing you'd be 'too much'?
Meet Too Much Tina—the shame gremlin who says 'turn it down or they'll leave.' She taught me emotions were problems, not human experiences.
But a funny goat moment (shaaa-ame! 🐐) changed everything. Now I bleat shame, drop truth bombs, and feel freely—gaining more stability than years of 'being strong.'
You deserve this too.

Lexie Loman
Dec 29, 20253 min read


Find Your Gold: From Casino Parking-Lot Breakdowns to a Life That Finally Feels Like Mine
Find Your Gold: From Casino Parking Lot Breakdown to a Life That Finally Feels Like Mine

Lexie Loman
Dec 9, 20254 min read


Choose Tiny Changes for Big Impact: Day 4 of the Uncover You Challenge
By Lexie Loman, Licensed Therapist & Founder of Lighthouse Mental Wellness Listen to the podcast: Thinking Out Loud High-achieving women in your 30s: Ever plan a big change—like a new routine—only to lose steam in days? You’re not alone. I’m Lexie Loman, licensed therapist with 13 years in mental health. In Episode 4 of Thinking Out Loud , we explore Day 4 of the FREE 5-Day Uncover You Challenge to choose tiny, achievable changes that create ripples of impact—without overwhe

Lexie Loman
Nov 25, 20254 min read


Uncover Your Autopilot Patterns: Day 3 of the Uncover You Challenge
By Lexie Loman, Licensed Therapist & Founder of Lighthouse Mental Wellness Listen to the podcast: Thinking Out Loud Are you a high-achieving woman in your 30s stuck on autopilot—snoozing your alarm, saying "yes" to everyone, or forgetting your resolutions three days later? You're not alone. I'm Lexie Loman, licensed therapist with 13 years in mental health and 8 in private practice. In Episode 3 of Thinking Out Loud , we dive into Day 3 of the FREE 5-Day Uncover You Challenge

Lexie Loman
Nov 18, 20253 min read


Break Free from Rumination: Day 2 of the Uncover You Challenge
By Lexie Loman, Licensed Therapist & Founder of Lighthouse Mental Wellness Listen to the podcast: Thinking Out Loud Are you a high-achieving woman in your 30s kept awake at night by racing thoughts, questioning every decision, or stuck in overtime on your endless to-do list? That mental noise is rumination —and it's silently draining your energy, confidence, and joy. I'm Lexie Loman, licensed therapist with 13 years in mental health and 8 in private practice. In Episode 2 of

Lexie Loman
Nov 11, 20253 min read


Pinpoint the ONE Thing Holding You Back (Free Day 1 Challenge)
Feeling stuck, anxious, or tired despite all the self-care? Learn how to pinpoint your ONE biggest block with simple mindfulness and journaling. Free Day 1 of my Uncover You Challenge inside—start small for real change.

Lexie Loman
Nov 4, 20254 min read
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