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If Good Things Feel Temporary — Start Here.

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When something good happens, your first thought isn’t gratitude.

It’s:

  • “This won’t last.”

  • “I probably don’t deserve this.”

  • “Don’t get too excited.”

You brace for loss even in moments of joy.

That voice isn’t realism.

It’s Undeserving Ursula — the inner gremlin that convinces you happiness is conditional and abundance is temporary.

Ursula teaches you to shrink your desires.
To expect less.
To quietly prepare for disappointment.

 

What Ursula Is Costing You

Left unchecked, Undeserving Ursula keeps you:

  • Waiting for the other shoe to drop

  • Minimizing your needs and wants

  • Feeling guilty for wanting more

  • Struggling to receive support, love, or success

  • Settling instead of thriving

You don’t have a gratitude problem.

You have a receiving problem — rooted in shame and scarcity.

 

The 7-Day Starve Your Gremlin Challenge

This isn’t positive thinking.

This is nervous-system retraining.

In just 7 days, you’ll learn how to:

  • Catch Ursula’s scarcity stories in real time

  • Interrupt the belief that you must earn good things

  • Practice receiving without guilt

  • Build emotional safety around joy

  • Replace “this won’t last” with grounded self-trust

Each day takes about 10 minutes.

No forced affirmations.
No spiritual bypassing.
No pretending everything is fine.

Just practical tools that help your body learn it’s safe to have good things.

Want Deeper Support?

If Freddie isn’t your only gremlin (he rarely works alone):

Gremlins & Goats Mini-Course

A guided system based on my book, including videos, workbook, meditations, and tools I use with private clients.

This is for you if you want:

  • A complete framework

  • Structured healing

  • On-demand support

  • Lifetime access

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The Unbinding Therapy Intensive

Live, supported work in community — where patterns surface faster and change happens deeper.

This is for you if you want:

  • Real-time guidance

  • Group accountability

  • Somatic + emotional processing

  • Faster breakthroughs

You aren’t broken.

Your nervous system learned to protect you.

Now it’s time to teach it something new.

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